3 pupils away from Changsha star in Yunnan province (photo) _ Feng Dequan

3 pupils away from Yunnan province in Changsha Star (map) on April 19, 2010 three Xiang City newspaper , April 18, Changsha Furong Rangers battalion, runaway xiaomin (left), little Wen (right) says he's a little rebellious but not "bad". Correspondent xiaozhihang about Photo Editor's Note: 3-12 years old girls in Yunnan province, due to dissatisfaction with the parents and the school "gross" education, running away from home to Changsha star; a small core of five grade of primary school in Changsha, you talk to reporters that he "love puzzles". Faced with this tale of 4 young protagonist, our parents, teachers and how should it be treated? wore uniform CAP, painted with colored Nail Polish, on April 18, Changsha Furong Rangers battalion, 3 breath of youth rebellion in Yunnan full face girl appears especially compelling. 2 days ago, they sneak 2000 Yuan from home, leaving a note after running away from home to Changsha "Star". Changsha Rangers after around 3 hours late at night, and finally found them. When you worry parents appeared in front of them, 3 talking and laughing children are silent. Reporter Zhou Hongquan correspondents xiaozhi Airlines "runaway" Changsha Rangers received calls in Yunnan province late at night on 18th, reporter at the Changsha Furong Rangers battalion corridor to see 3 little girls little Wen, xiaomin, xiaoxin. They are six first-year students in a school of Qujing city in Yunnan province. Rangers Li Rengang told the reporter, April 17, to which he and his colleagues Ling Zhong "110" alarm centers alert phone: the night before, 3 Yunnan Qujing city girl running away from home, parents from public telephones in the confirmation of their plays to his classmates, they had to Changsha Furong district near five bridges. After a few minutes, Li Rengang, Ling Zhong arrived at the scene. After several twists, they finally determine pay phone is a great new hotel opposite the post newspaper kiosk phones. Ling Zhong and supper vendors and hotel accommodations around the Li Rengang visited Lanke staff and finally purple broad Road East Pavilion next to the hotel found a little Wen, xiaomin, which was found in a small hotel near the small yan. 3 civilian police immediately brought back to the site, buy food for them, and call the little Wen's father. Learn Changsha Rangers when you find the lost daughter, few parents night immediately rushed to Changsha. "The leaving reason" "teacher in front of the class to read text messages to make fun of" little Wen told reporters that they are 3 "be sworn brothers" like my sister, the reasons for running away from home, mostly sisters "small welcome" at school "grievance". A few days ago, xiaoxin and users send text messages in class when it was found by the teacher, the teacher should read in front of the class in the class of small Yan cell phone text message "making fun". Teacher says, little Wen and xiaoxin is a bad student. It makes them feel very angry. Usually the teacher what to parents "informer", while their parents are doing the coal business and never care about their lives, but only the scold, blame them. "Home pipe is too dead, 3 won't let us play together over the weekend, is free at all. "Little wen said, which makes them feel at home and feel the warmth and love. "Running away to wish" to see "make progress every day" and "happy home" the night of April 16, from Siu Hin, xiaomin two people from home to "sneak" $ 2000 mutual funds as a 3 person, Xiao Wen to leave at home on a "MOM and dad, I'm going. Don't look for me, I hate my teacher! "after the note of 3 people bought train tickets, went to took a day and a night train. Reporter noted that the 3 faces of childlike little girl's dress with age does not match the obvious: wearing a ring on his hand, fingernails painted with colored Nail Polish. In this regard, little wen said, these are they from the screen, and adults learn to feel very good, would like to change images. In addition, their 3 is like watching the Hunan TV's "make progress every day", "happy home" program, liked the moderator. Them as a first stop for runaway Changsha, Changsha on-site programs, and host "intimate" contact. Close-up 3 talking and laughing children when parents appear to be silent about 18th, when parents appeared in Rangers battalion of 3 kids, and civilian police and laughing kids head, relaxed atmosphere of the moment get a little awkward. 3 little girl told reporters that they were interested in Internet, but it's not as parents and teachers thought that "bad", just a bit of rebellion. Journalists see, QQ logs of their themes are mostly about love. They say that their favorite guy, but this is not the teachers and parents in the eyes of "Puppy Love" relationship between themselves and the boys are just a "have a good friendship." They stress that it is for friends "sister spirited". Xiaoxin said that the 17th they bought a bunch of clothes and after ticket 3 ticket to Guiyang, who left will call to students for help, but the whereabouts of each other but they tell teachers and parents, it makes them feel "betrayed". Expert parents should use the "make friends" approach guided education how to deal with the rebellious children, parents are worried and intractable problem. Little Wen's father said, he does very little communication with daughters, concerned about her daughter's idea in mind, as the daughter said "texting" he knew. Plus the usual is very strict with his daughter, resulting in barriers and misconceptions between father and daughter. This time her daughter's runaway incidents gave him to wake up, after he and his daughter, "making friends" approach to education and guidance to her daughter's life, which has been endorsed by Psychology instructor. Because in growth of adolescent rebellion of the children, the hope to gain equal dialogue with adults, simply called stick-style education, easier to motivate children of reverse psychology. Concerns minors �� star grade primary school students encounter "love puzzles" this park, April 18, Changsha Chengdu xiaorui grader students recently having a little trouble, he broke into our hotline said, now I really like girls in our class, she liked me, I want to wait until the time is right, telling mom and dad, you feel so good, we? "," 10 years they have six months xiaorui said that he was 10 years old this year, like the girl called sweet, is a talented woman in her class, good grades, and humor, "she was very appealing to me, we have half a year. "" That you areContact? "reporter's small core. "I wrote her a note every day, that I liked her class to talk to accompany her on her seat, and no others bully for her. "Xiaorui shy to answer. Xiaorui sweet and also talked about his first "touch" experience: p, when, at the corner of a flight of stairs, two "buddies" as he kept watch, his sweet little mouth. "But I recently upset, the teacher looking for our conversation that we liked each other is true, but it continues to grow, not to further action. "Xiaorui says, because the teacher talk, sweet weren't allowed to be" harassed "her, was also not allowed to kiss him. "Expert" pupils "in love" imitation "of pupils ' love ' is imitation, teachers and parents not too worried and guiding lines. "Changsha adolescent psychologists Wang t said that about 50% children in junior high school, even elementary school, already had feelings for the first time to sprout. Doomed them pause in their age to follow the stages, the children of "love" is at most great favor or to a student relations are very good to play with A Partner. Although children may occur at this time secretly hug or even kissing, but generally do not make more illegal things. Wang t particularly emphasized that pupils love just acts of imitation, rather than emotional and physiological levels of demand. Therefore, when during the education of children and avoid accusations of children as adults, let alone such as "disgraceful" "nasty" and other radical rhetoric, preferably in a relaxed and friendly way things kids love should be adults and take the child to participate in a variety of positive and useful social activities, and let them concentrate on invested in learning. ■ a reporter He Weiling intern Yang Yuqing